The clip on the left actually brought about some interesting events outside of television, and, like uncovering bugs from under a rock, it uncovered a not-so-nice side of children these days. The episode in question had Cece and Rocky going to a party hosted by "Shake it Up Chicago" moderator Gary Wilde. There were at the party supermodels who took an instant liking to Flynn when he shows up with his mom, busting the party. There are a couple of jokes made about how the supermodels don't eat, etc... Well, turns out that former Disney actress Demi Lovato saw the episode, and, having had bouts with eating disorders, among other things, went onto Twitter and http://www.nickandmore.com/2011/12/24/demi-tweets-disney-pulls-episodes/">criticized Disney for not having girls of all sizes on the shows. Davis tweeted back, http://demelzellion.wordpress.com/2011/12/24/twitter-drama-davis-cleveland-vs-demi-lovato/"> taking up for the show. I'm not trying here to analyze who was right or wrong. Notice that the Tweets were done shortly before Christmas, 2011. From that point until now, fans of Demi Lovato have been barraging Davis' twitter account with threats, curses, and insults, most of which have overshadowed his efforts to help out fans with Cystic Fibrosis, and more recently, helping out the (far too late) cause of preventing bullying at school. To show a demonstration, and to warn you, it does contain vulgarities:
Now, everyone's up to date. To analyze this mess, we have to see how the Internet has changed our way of thinking, of communicating. For, as Neil Postman famously said, "The Medium is the Message." The Internet has created an instant communication relay, allowing anyone and everyone to talk about anything without regulation or censorship. It has, as Postman talked about in The Disappearance of Childhood, taken away the ability of parents to control what information children receive. It is now entirely possible for kids, or anyone, to find out about anything instantly, from terroristic ideas to pornography of every variety. It also has the ability, through Twitter and Facebook, to provide an instant open communication between a child and potentially every person on Earth. This has brought the teasings and insults that children would normally get in school (and believe me, I've been the target of many of them), and launches them into the privacy and safety of the child's bedroom. Thus the recent suicides due to cyber-bullying.
What I want to understand, however, is exactly why this happens. The internet effectively removes all barriers between children and the outside world. In a place where everyone is equal, where social media makes everyone closer than they could possibly be before, it also isolates people to be utterly alone. People are at once surrounded by friends, and totally alone. Isolated and anonymous. As if they were stranded on some far off island.
Which is what brings me to Davis' situation. The girls who have insulted Davis can be easily compared to the boys stranded on the island in William Golding's Lord of the Flies. Without rules, the boys slowly turn into feral beings, turning on friends and companions and wishing their deaths. And Piggy, the sole voice of conscience in the story, is killed when a boulder is dropped on his head. It is only when adults show up in the end and rescue them that the boys start to weep, to show remorse for all that's happen. The island was set on fire by the boys, trying to get their enemies flushed out, and thus the place where they enjoyed freedom becomes a nightmare and unlivable.
Twitter has become much like that island for some children, where vile insults and, honestly, death threats, are launched through the twitterverse without repercussion. There is no thought of right or wrong, simply of entering text and pressing "Enter." And since the idea of anonymity is so strong online, there are no consequences for any thought or word placed in cyberspace. Thus the rumors of RIP(insert famous person here), or the cyber-bullying of students and the outright lies that float around on the Internet ocean like so much Flotsam.
There are no boundaries on the Internet. Now, the question is, how to fix the problem? Parents can try to monitor and provide regulations for their children on what can be done and said online. The websites could try some sort of technical restrictions on Facebook accounts, especially of famous people and television shows most likely to be followed by children. I say this because the amount of disgusting things hurled at iCarly's Facebook posts every day is amazing. You should check them out. It's very easy to get around age restrictions, but certainly something can be done. But for the most part, it's up to the children online to regulate themselves. Why would children like those above say those things? It makes no sense. But if kids were taught ethics, right from wrong, instead of being set free in the midst of the world's ideas without a single road to follow, maybe a lot of this mess could be controlled. I guess it's up to the discipline given out by the parents. And I've been a teacher and a retail worker long enough to know that parents' able to discipline their children effectively are getting fewer and fewer. It's also up to children, in the online community, to understand the technology they are operating. Facebook can be easily controlled so that those who would say harmful things are blocked. And if those insulting things are said by people that you don't know (I would say that all of the people hurling insults at Davis have never even met him, nor he them. ), just ignore them. Take them as part of the static and noise that covers the Internet. Davis is ignoring them, while showing the world how, without rules, children become feral monsters, taking down anyone with lies, vulgarity, even threats. It is good that Davis is as strong as he is, and that he realizes that very few of these kids will ever meet him. Notice that the threats that are pictured above happened in February, some two months after the original exchange. It's my advice that some of these people get help, from their parents, or from psychologists. Without rules, these girls will wind up becoming adults with major problems, and words will become actions. We don't need this.
What we need to do is laugh. Thankfully, Disney, Davis Cleveland and his crew, as well as most of the other shows are there to make us forget about some of this junk. If only life were more like some of these episodes, with all the problems taken care of in 22 minutes. But, alas, in today's world, it's just not to be.
